I'm so paranoid about my girlfriend on nights out?

one you should be a little scared but if you are to scared like she said she will think you don't trust her and the relationship will go no where if you don't trust her. second try to go with her or have a friend go to a place she is at with her friend. try to use a friend she doesn't know and is kinda hot and have them hit on her then go from there. if she flirts back think if you want a girl that is flirting with other guys. i did this to my ex-boyfriend one time hints why he is an ex. yes drunk girls can say no. i say no all the time because i really love my boyfriend. I'm in NY and he is in FL i am going to college up here but i trust him and he trusts me. The only way a relationship work is if there is trust. I hope this helps and good luck!!